“I have to choose between these options” or “These are my options right now.”

“I’m stuck” or “I’m feeling stuck and I’m curious as to what’s blocking me.”

“So what? I don’t care” or “So what? Are you going to let that stop you?”

“I’ve always screwed it up” or “In the past I’ve always screwed it up but the past isn’t always a predictor of the future.” 

Small tweaks, but radically different mindsets. Which one do you want to embrace?