I don’t wash my car as often as I’m told I should.
You can use this data to make a lot of assumptions about me.
Some of them would be accurate, some of them would be inaccurate.
The stories you’re telling yourself about me and my car, regardless of validity, are what are now stuck in your mind about who I am.
While it’s important to understand who you are, it’s also important to understand what stories your actions and words tell about you, and that at the end of the day how the other person interprets those stories is how they’ll remember you.