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Approval

It’s tempting to want to get picked. After all, it’s a great feeling as someone is articulating their desire for you, your skills, your talents, your value. 

I’m not above this desire. Who doesn’t want to be chosen?

But at the end of the day, the best thing we can do is to pick ourselves. That means focusing on what you can control, because the heart of it is that someone else picking you is actually about them, and not you at all. 

So what can you do today to pick yourself?

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